Swearing at School
No one comes to school to work or learn and be sworn at. It is not helpful and it is certainly not kind.
Let’s Work Together to Tackle Swearing
We’ve noticed that most swearing happens when kids are disregulated or upset/angry. While we understand these feelings, swearing isn’t appropriate for school.
And for some students it would seem that swearing is a regular part of their vocabulary to express joy, happiness, dislike, getting a fright or a surprise. We recognise that this is sometimes a 'slip of the tongue'
We’d appreciate your help in reminding your child to use respectful language at school.
It’s important to explain that some words might be okay at home but aren’t acceptable in other places, like school. Different places have different rules, and at school, swearing is not allowed.
If a child continues to use inappropriate language, they may need a break from the playground, or classroom and we’ll contact you if necessary.
We’re counting on your support if that happens!
Why Kids Swear
Kids often swear when they’re upset or frustrated. Sometimes, they do it to fit in or get attention. Other times, they’re copying what they’ve heard from others.
How You Can Help
Here are some tips to encourage respectful language:
Talk About It: Calmly explain that swearing isn’t okay because it can hurt others.
Set Family Rules: Decide together what words are acceptable at home.
Be a Role Model: Show your child how to express frustration without swearing.
Praise Good Behavior: Recognize when your child handles emotions or situations without using bad language.
Monitor Media: Keep an eye on what your child watches or listens to, as some content may include swearing.
Managing Swearing in the Long Run
Help your child find better ways to deal with anger or frustration, like taking deep breaths or counting to ten. You could also come up with funny, non-offensive words to use instead.
Together, we can help our kids develop respectful communication skills!