Guide for Parents: Supporting Children with After-School Routines
Advice from Tupuranga Attendance Service
Helping children develop a consistent after-school routine sets them up for a well-rested and stress-free start to the next school day. Below are 3 simple tips to create a smooth afternoon and evening routine. We will share 3 more tips in our next newsletter.
1. After-School Transition
Create conversation - Ask about their day:
What did they do?
How are they feeling?
If they have challenges, address them with understanding and discuss solutions.
If needed, consider support from services like Te Tahi Youth (10+) or Manu Ka Rere (13+).
Down time/play time - Allow kids to engage in free play, reading, drawing or playing with toys.
Healthy snacks and physical activity - Give kids a chance to refuel with nutritious snacks and get the body moving with activities like dancing, games or outdoor play.
2. Dinner Time
Set a consistent dinner time each night (e.g., 6:00 PM) to create stability.
Use mealtime as a chance to reconnect as a family.
3. Evening Wind-Down Routine
After dinner tasks:
Homework if applicable (if not done earlier).
Shower/bath and getting ready for bed (brushing teeth, brushing hair, putting on pajamas).
Laying out school uniforms and packing school bags.
Preparing lunch the night before and storing it in the fridge.
Technology use:
If necessary, allow screen time but turn off devices at least one hour before bed to promote better sleep.
By establishing a structured after-school routine, children feel more prepared, less stressed, and ready to take on the next day with confidence.