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Guide for Parents: Supporting Children with After-School Routines

Bromley School —

Advice from Tupuranga Attendance Service

Helping children develop a consistent after-school routine sets them up for a well-rested and stress-free start to the next school day. Below are 3 simple tips to create a smooth afternoon and evening routine. We will share 3 more tips in our next newsletter.

1. After-School Transition

  • Create conversation - Ask about their day:

    • What did they do?

    • How are they feeling?

      • If they have challenges, address them with understanding and discuss solutions.

      • If needed, consider support from services like Te Tahi Youth (10+) or Manu Ka Rere (13+).

  • Down time/play time - Allow kids to engage in free play, reading, drawing or playing with toys.

  • Healthy snacks and physical activity - Give kids a chance to refuel with nutritious snacks and get the body moving with activities like dancing, games or outdoor play.

2. Dinner Time

  • Set a consistent dinner time each night (e.g., 6:00 PM) to create stability.

  • Use mealtime as a chance to reconnect as a family.

3. Evening Wind-Down Routine

  • After dinner tasks:

    • Homework if applicable (if not done earlier).

    • Shower/bath and getting ready for bed (brushing teeth, brushing hair, putting on pajamas).

    • Laying out school uniforms and packing school bags.

    • Preparing lunch the night before and storing it in the fridge.

  • Technology use:

    • If necessary, allow screen time but turn off devices at least one hour before bed to promote better sleep.

    By establishing a structured after-school routine, children feel more prepared, less stressed, and ready to take on the next day with confidence.