Talking about Secondary School with your child

Moving from primary to secondary school is exciting – a rite of passage. But it can also be a daunting or anxious time.

As a parent, there is much you can do to help your child manage the transition and minimise anxiety, whatever their situation.

Chat about how they are feeling and how it will be different from primary – for instance, bigger site, new people, changing teachers and rooms for subjects, more homework.

Reassure them that nerves about starting something new are normal, as is some sadness at leaving familiar things, and that these feelings usually subside.

But be careful not to impose your worries. Focus on exciting opportunities too – new subjects, activities and friends. Celebrating the milestone of finishing primary school, and all the ways they have grown, can boost self-esteem and confidence.

Paula Dorè, Learning Support Coordinator