Kirisimasi!
A celebration of family
It is that time of the year in the islands – time to reconnect, celebrate and be thankful for family. The first of December marks a time of celebrations and a time to be appreciative of how blessed it is to have completed another year. Kirisimasi (Christmas) as it is often called in Fiji is the pinnacle of the month of December and is followed through with family gatherings, feasts, and more feasting. In all of these celebrations it is also a time to be able to appreciate the uniqueness of family and it’s traditions.
These celebrations often remind you of the importance of family wellbeing and a self-realisation of “Sautu” – which denotes such a state of being. Sau – reflects being imbued with mana arising from one’s position or performance of role. Tu – is to rise following the successful discharge of one’s duty. In a village setting, Sautu is achieved when members adhere to their roles as defined according to their positions in the traditional social hierarchy. Sautu is therefore self-sustaining and is equipped to deal with issues that are designed to fracture its core. It is about good health as epitomised in the Fijian greeting Bula Vinaka (Good Health).
This may be difficult to understand when there is so much structure and social hierarchy in the culture. Vakarokoroko (respect) is often critical in these settings and is even stricter in relation to family ties. It is in these observances that often allow “veitokoni” an ability to work together carrying out tasks together, and as a family. Kirisimasi is often appreciated when there is “Talanoa” or “Veirogorogoci” a practice of ongoing communication with, sharing with, and listening to each other is often made easier when these are intertwined with respect.
Finally, Kirisimasi is not complete without Lotu (Christianity), and this has had a profound effect on a fearless and warring Fijian society. Christianity had many similarities with the Fijian culture and has been a stabilising and progressive tool in the wellbeing of the individual Fijian. This spiritual aspect makes it even complete when you do get to celebrate Krisimasi with family.
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