Warm lockdown greetings from Tāmaki Makaurau. The pandemic continues to shape a new, ever-changing normal every day which understandably can heighten levels of anxiety and stress.

By the time of reading this article, senior students in Auckland will have returned to school, alongside children already back at school in level 2 areas across the country. It’s worth noting that during times such as these, conversations around the pandemic shouldn’t be limited to parents or adults only. Conversations should be had with children and young people alike. Why? Well, simply put, young people are also worried, scared and anxious.

I recently had a conversation with someone during an online youth group session where they talked about how they can’t stop thinking about the pandemic and worrying about what might be around the corner. I’ve spoken to other students concerned that they may not get back into a classroom for the rest of the year. Yes – we have reached the point where the novelty of staying home has well and truly worn off! I’ve even struggled at times to articulate to my three-year-old why she can’t go to daycare, get out of the car when making a stop at the shops or why mum and dad have to wear funny blue masks when walking around the block. It is crucially important that parents, caregivers and adults are prepared to have these sometimes difficult, but absolutely critical ongoing conversations with our rangatahi and tamariki. 

Of course, from the context of our Christianity, we have the added layer of being able to approach everything going on in the world at the moment through lens of faith. Simple but deep theological questions can arise with our young people if we open ourselves up for talanoa (open conversation). “Which essential workers may need our prayers at this time? What part of the pandemic-response needs to be covered in the Holy Spirit? How can we pray and act for those in need during this time from home? What might our faith say about science and vaccination?” These are real questions and discussions I have had with young people, since the pandemic’s origins in 2020.

Many of our youth groups and churches have done outstanding jobs during these times, continuing to connect virtually, and taking advantage of new-found technologies and resources. From VTOA’s Sup Toko Youth Show on FaceBook, to Sinoti’s Panmure Meko Youth on IG Live, Waikato Waiariki Unites Synod Youth on Fridays, to organic small group bible studies in Palmerston North and worship collaboration projects in Auckland. The list goes on. 

These conversations can and should flow over into our families, who, from youngest to oldest, all are experiencing this pandemic life together. I encourage our parents, caregivers, grandparents and parishioners to take the time to engage in what youth would colloquially refer to as “Good chats.” Your whānau will be all the better for it. 

Prayer resource: I encourage you, if you haven’t already, to take a look at some Covid-related prayer resource ideas found at this link, via 24-7 Prayer International. 

www.missionresourcing.org.nz/tytanzblog6.html

www.24-7prayer.com/ 

by Michael Lemanu, Tauiwi Children, Youth and Family Ministries National Coordinator.