In a world of heavy social media exposure where self-promotion is the norm, it is hard to identify the trait of humility in some spheres. It almost seems stolen. Perhaps it is time to be brought right up to being the most important quality needed.

Humility is in fact, one of the most powerful and essential attributes of growth. For many, at first glance, humility may be seen as a sign of weakness rather than a strength. In reality, humility is a type of modesty that will lead to a fulfilling life.

Those who aren’t humble will almost certainly have a fixed mindset. Their sense of arrogance and self-absorbed pride will hinder them to see their own weaknesses or what they need to develop, which will inhibit them to reach their full potential. It will rob them of their ability to achieve. After all, life is a highway of learning and growing. Without being humble, one’s life will be stunted in all aspects.

Those with humility do have pride in their accomplishments, the difference is they know how to share their strengths by being mindful of the time, place and tone in which this takes place.

You can easily identify those who have pride. You will see them doing the following:

• Saying “good match” or “ well done” to their opponent, whether they won or lost after a competition or game.

• Being open-minded to any feedback and allowing this to fuel development rather than resentment.

• Apologizing after making a mistake.

• Wanting the best for others rather than trying to harbour all success for themselves.

• Helping others rather than looking down on them.

• Look to others with the eye of inspiration and not jealousy.

• Look to improve themselves

I see this every day in a variety of ways at SMC. It is humbling in its self to be surrounded by girls and adults who display these qualities so often it is part of their nature. You only have to look at our girls as they compete this week throughout the country representing our school with humility in their accomplishments. To me, that is no better example of young woman learning, living and leading.